Psychological Abuse Doesn't Stop
The thing about abuse
is, it doesn't stop. It just is a continuous horrible circle where the men get
away with it... forever.
My dad has been yelling
at my mom for days, I have been staying passive. I had a few friends over last
night in a safe, controlled environment. None of us do anything that would
expose us to COVID so that is why I had them over. We had a great day in the
pool, then had a bonfire and then went to bed. This morning we worked together
to clean up and had breakfast and they went home. I was going to clean up the
kitchen after I took a nap because that was a lot of social for me. The next thing I know is that my mom is inside
crying, asking me to help her clean up. So, I go outside, and I ask her with
what? The two boxes that HE KICKED to the ground?? Apparently, there was like a
few pieces of trash I missed because I am only human and haven’t been back outside
since everyone left. I even rinsed down the patio this morning to make sure it
was clean. Instead of coming to talk to
me he went and Yelled at my sister who was in the pool by this time and then
yelled at my mom. I finally had it and stood up for her and interjected because
I had enough. He didn’t like that of
course and started calling me a bitch and saying that I am off the will and the
house is no longer mine. I told him he can’t do that because mom would have to
sign as well. So, I asked “what, are you going to force her to sign it” and his
response was “yes, she will do whatever the fuck I tell her to do or I will
make her miserable”. He just continues this abuse over and over and over. He
then threatened he is going to call CPS so they get taken away and put in the
system because he knows that is a way to get at me. He also said that my
daughter is a “piece of shit, just like her mom”. SHE IS TEN YOU GUYS. TEN
YEARS OLD. This 69-year-old man is an asshole. Please raise your sons to treat
women with respect. Please raise your sons that women shouldn’t be treated like
this and that we have rights. This isn’t okay. I shouldn’t have to live like this,
and I can’t even afford to leave. If he gets my kids taken away because he is
the ABUSER, I am going to be so angry at the system. Angry that the system
would let a man who abuses his wife and daughters win. He then comes out and says that I am exposing
him to COVID now, two weekends in a row. When he goes up to visit the neighbors
who never wear a mask ALL THE TIME as well as going to a block party last
weekend for July 4th. He takes unnecessary risks to interact with
people and then is now trying to turn it around on me, so that way if he gets sick,
he can try to blame me. I know that is what he is trying to do as he cannot
ever take accountability for his own actions. This all took place on July 12, 2020 between 12:45
pm and 1:30 pm. I want to start noting the dates and times, so I have it here
in a safe place for the world to see. My story will not be forgotten because
there are times when I think he is meaning to silence it forever.
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